By Alright, so you’ve just entered your 20s or maybe you’re already knee-deep in this wild and unpredictable decade. Either way, you’re probably wondering: what the heck am I supposed to do in my 20s? Well, grab a drink—coffee, tea, or whatever suits you—because we’re about to dive into this together.
No one gets it perfect, and honestly, perfection is overrated. This era of your life is sometimes romanticized and other times terrifyingly oversold. For real, you get one go at your 20s, and they’re meant for exploration! So, where do we start?
Ask Yourself the Big Questions
First things first, ponder over the big, existential questions every once in a while. Not to sound too philosophical, but figuring out what you want from life is kind of important. Trust me on this one, life gets exponentially less overwhelming when you have a semi-clear direction or at least know what feels right.
*Do you want to travel the world?* Go for it. Experiencing different cultures can change your perspective more than you’d expect. Want an apartment you can call your own? Maybe start budgeting. Just try things, a bunch of them maybe. Learning what you like is a process, not something you’ll magically know by 25.
Build Friendships (Different Ones)
Ah, friendships—those complex nets of support and laughter. Maintaining high school friendships while forging new ones requires some multitasking. Make those deeper, closer friendships, too, the ones that stay regardless of time and distance.
Try meeting people with varied backgrounds. Work friends, book club buddies, or that person you chat with at the local coffee shop. Don’t worry if some connections fade over time; it’s natural. The hope is for you to learn something from each one.
Focus on Financial Health
Look, there’s no getting around it. Money is a part of life, and understanding how it works can make things easier down the line. Now before you scroll past this section, hear me out. Don’t let financial jargon scare you off.
- Learn the basics of budgeting. List your expenses, see where your money goes.
- Start saving! Even tiny amounts can add up. Got a rainy-day fund? No? Time to start one.
- Understand credit scores and how they affect you.
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- Whether you’re cutting down on those daily lattes or investing in the stock market is up to you. Just know how to balance having fun and saving for future you.
Chase Education
Don’t roll your eyes at this one. Education is not just about formal degrees. The more informal kind—like online courses, YouTube tutorials, or going down a Wikipedia rabbit hole—matters too.
Not finished with college? That’s okay. Decide if further degrees help your goals or if practical experience is more up your alley. “What to do in your 20s” often circles back to learning, expanding what you know, and realizing you know very little. And that’s thrilling!
Health Habits: Ready, Set, Change
Alright, let’s get one thing straight: you’re not invincible. Waking up hangover-free might become a distant memory. Start thinking about a few healthy habits if you haven’t already.
You don’t have to overhaul your entire life, but simple changes count—think eating better and exercising regularly. Find an activity you love. Don’t pressure yourself into revamping your diet or becoming a marathoner overnight, but recognize they won’t be easier magically when you’re 30.*
Professional Growth: Learn by Doing
Your career might be the area causing the most anxiety. Were you supposed to start your dream job immediately after school? Probably not. Instead, explore, intern, start somewhere even if it’s not close to your ideal role. Consider it part of your learning process.
Your 20s are the time to dip your toes into multiple waters, get internships, experiment with different roles. Fail a bit. That’s how the professional landscape works. Gig economy? Part-time roles? Or starting your blog while holding a day job? Do it.
Personal Development Matters
Personal development isn’t just a throwaway term reserved for entrepreneurs or influencers. Maybe today’s about learning emotional intelligence. Gratitude logic—figure out what makes you feel good, and put effort there.
Discover a hobby. Gardening, journaling, making weird clay sculptures; anything that ignites a small spark of happiness. That’s the stuff that makes you, beautifully and wildly, you.
Give Back When You Can
Nothing says maturity quite like contributing to the world around you. Volunteer. Help out friends. Mentor a stray teen who reminds you of a more confused version of yourself. Sounds cheesy?
Well, acts of kindness and seeing people appreciate them hits differently. The happy believers call it karma. You just might discover pathways that merge passion and purpose beautifully.
Travel, Even Just Some
For all you wanderlust souls, globe-trotting has never been more accessible. Never left your town? A quick road trip will do wonders. Europe on your bucket list? Start saving, trust me, it’s worth it for the different learnings and endless memories. Travel tests, twists, surprises, and rewards you like no other experience.
Striking a Work-Life Balance
Finally, balance is vital. All work and no play will sooner or later tip the scales towards burnout. Saturday crafting, movie night Friday, Sunday long run, every little thing counts—find what helps you keep perspective and stay energized;// little breaks can give you the long-term zest of life more than those weekend crashes ever will.
Embrace Imperfection
Let’s wrap up this journey you’re defying “what to do in your 20s.” Once you’re okay with things being chaotic and slightly imperfect, your growth becomes authentic rather than something merely copied off a checklist. Make your blueprint as you go, and if anything doesn’t work—hey—it’s an experiment after all.
In the end, the greatest achievements of your 20s may not feel monumental. They could appear as small victorious rides or just peaceful insight. Just lean in, and know people are figuring it out, yourself included.
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